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July/August 2007 Spirituality
What's Your Love Color?

by Pamala Oslie

It doesn't seem to matter what culture, faith or background we come from: most of us yearn to experience love.

How do we know what type of partner is best for us and how will we recognize that true love once we meet up? The answers may lie in our love colors.

What is a love color? Have you ever wondered why you are drawn to some people and not others? Have you seen a pattern in the type of people you are consistently attracted to? Do you feel a certain vibe from some people that fascinates you, and an energy from others that makes you want to pull away?

If so, you are most certainly sensing their aura - the field of energy that surrounds each of us. The different colors in our aura, especially the one or two bands of color that are closest to our bodies - our love colors - reveal important information about our personalities, goals, priorities, career strengths, health and relationship styles.

There are many different love colors - some people have colors that are compatible with our personal colors, and some are contrary. Learning about the different colors is a great way to begin understanding who you are. Then you can gain clarity on the qualities of the other love colors that are the most compatible with yours.

If you have a blue love color, for example, and you are involved with someone who has a yellow love color, your relationship can be very compatible. The emotional blues are loyal, loving, nurturing caretakers. Yellows are fun-loving, sensitive and child-like. Typically both are kind, generous and helpful.

Problems can arise between blues and yellows, however, when the monogamous blues desire a long-term commitment. The playful yellows often fear the confines of marriage - they prefer fun and freedom. Many blues can wait years for their unavailable and fearful yellows to make a commitment. When these two are emotionally healthy and balanced, however, they make a wonderfully loving couple.

A relationship between a green and a violet has very different dynamics. These two can be a powerful and productive force together as long as they remember to respect one another. The independent, visionary violets have big dreams - often of creating grand, global, humanitarian projects, or of attaining fame and fortune.

The quick and organized greens can either help the violets reach their goals or thwart them by criticizing their visions. The strong-willed greens often accuse violets of being unrealistic dreamers. Because both prefer to be in charge, these two can experience intense power struggles. If instead they can learn to cooperate, this pair has the potential to create an exciting and prosperous life together.

Oranges and tans, on the other hand, are not very compatible. Oranges are adventurous daredevils. They are usually found scaling treacherous cliffs or jumping from airplanes. Tans enjoy calm, rational and predictable lives. They prefer to settle down with a stable nine-to-five job, and commit to their families. The thrill-seeking oranges usually find the tans to be too safe and complacent, while tans see the oranges' risk-taking actions as self-indulgent, dangerous and illogical.

While any couple with enough love and commitment can make their relationship work, some colors are more compatible than others so their relationship can be easier to sustain. The more you understand each color's personality, needs and desires, the better chance you have to create a long-term, compatible relationship.

Based on Pamala Oslie's Love Colors: A New Approach to Love, Relationships, and Auras
. Printed with permission of New World Library, www.newworldlibrary.com. Pamala Oslie is a dynamic psychic who, in addition to having her own radio show, has been a popular guest on numerous television and radio shows around the country. Visit www.auracolors.com.