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March/April 2007 Spirituality
Using Life Force Energy to Create Loving, Fulfilling Relationships

by Master Stephen Co

All relationships are based on life force energy. Relationships are built and destroyed by the energies created by our thoughts, emotions and opinions.

Positive relationships reflect intimacy in every aspect of togetherness: mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. The energy of a loving couple in an intimate relationship blends in a harmonious way, allowing love and good emotions to flow between them easily and freely.

Conversely, when a couple is in a poor relationship, arguing and fighting, the energy fields don’t blend and flow. They actually clash and repel, manifesting as painful friction.

As Pranic Healing uses our life-force energy to heal, it can heal relationships as well as bodies. Pranic Healing disintegrates the negative thoughts and emotions of couples. This helps empower individuals to react less to negative energies, while promoting good energy to flow freely between both partners.

Four Levels of Intimacy

There are many levels of intimacy in relationships, including physical or sexual, emotional or astral, spiritual, and mental intimacy.

Often couples fail to understand that intimacy is about more than sex. When intimacy exists only in the physical body, it tends to fade when the physical body changes.

The same is true on an emotional level. When emotions change, so does the intimacy. It is the nature of the emotional body to be extremely reactive to the surroundings and situations in a person’s life. That’s why it’s important to be conscious of the state of our intimacy on all levels and nurture it.

When emotions change, so does the intimacy. The heart chakras of two people have to be highly activated and in tune to each other to form a heart connection. The energetic method makes loving each other effortless.

From a spiritual standpoint, it's important that the energy fields of two people in a relationship merge together. When we project love, love is projected back to us. We literally manipulate energy to create positive effects and invoke healing.

Mentally, the thoughts we project onto others truly have power. Most people don’t even realize that projecting bad thoughts toward someone, even without saying a word, can make that person weaker. On the other hand, thinking thoughts of health and love about the same person can help develop positive traits. This also is true of the thoughts we think about ourselves. The energy field does not care if thoughts are positive or negative — it absorbs whatever is sent.

On the mental level, people often put their partner’s faults and weakness under a microscope rather than focusing on the positive traits. An easy technique is to mentally enhance the positive qualities your partner has, no matter how small. Silently do an inventory of your partner’s positive qualities, mentally praise him or her, and then later physically tell the person how you feel about these awesome and special qualities.

This is not limited to relationships with significant others. It also applies to friends, relatives and business partners. Remember to project love from your heart and crown chakras, and you’ll see friendships or business relationships become closer. You can even do this with people with whom you have conflicts and create positive results.

Self Pranic Healing can also be helpful in dealing with self-anger. Eliminating self-anger guards against projecting negative energy on a loved one over problems that actually have nothing to do with them, such as frustration from a hurried workday.

You can learn how to use the power of your aura and specific chakras to flush out anger, stress and resentment. By doing this, you’ll stop repeating the same negative energetic conditions that manifest as repeated failed relationships. All life is energy, and our relationship to life is through energy. By learning to consciously direct your own life force energy, you can greatly improve your relationships.

Join Master Stephen Co in Portland on March 31 and April 1 for Your Hands Can Heal You, his experiential training to learn and apply the laws of life force energy. Visit www.yourhandscanhealyou.com