November/December 2004 Living Now
SacredFlight: The Role of Music-Thanatology in Compassionate End-of-Life Care
by Michael Sasnow, Music-Thanatologist
"Our mission is to lovingly and compassionately serve the
spiritual and physical needs of those nearing the end of life with prescriptive
music." This statement of commitment by SacredFlight, a palliative music
practice in Portland, echoes the one made by each graduate at the Chalice of
Repose Project-School of Music-Thanatology, before we received our certificates
in 2000. When I enrolled in the two year Masters level program in Missoula,
Montana in 1998, I never imagined what would be required of me academically,
musically, emotionally and spiritually to get to that point. Nor could I have
imagined the depth of meaning it would hold for me at that moment, nor how it
would grow as I would continue to grow with this work.
The development of music-thanatology goes back about 30 years.
Harpist Therese Schroeder-Sheker brought together the gentle, moving sounds of
harp and voice with healing streams from medieval and ancient times to create a
modern clinical practice that crosses boundaries between palliative and
spiritual care. Palliative care specialists in hospitals and hospice are at the
leading edge of "comfort care": care given to control pain and address
quality of life issues, after the decision has been made to discontinue
aggressive therapies aimed at curing a disease condition. Music-thanatologists
trained at the Chalice of Repose Project-School of Music-Thanatology now provide
"music vigils" at hospitals and hospices across the US (as well as
Canada, Australia, Europe and Israel), and are often called in to play by other
members of the palliative care team. The music often helps with pain, breathing
problems, restlessness and sleep problems. But the roots of music-thanatology
are also deeply spiritual, and our services are often requested by members of
the spiritual care team who, after a music vigil, have seen patients become
calmer, less fearful or anxious, or more at peace. In addition, and often
equally as important, family and loved ones present at the vigil often
experience many of the same benefits. In the calming atmosphere provided by the
music, a space of beauty and reverence is created where interior reflection and
processing of grief and other emotions can safely occur.
Ancient Roots
The synergy of music and medicine (or music as medicine)
stretches back through millennia. Sound and rhythm have been, and remain, an
integral part of indigenous healing rites around the world. Music was central to
the healing work practiced by the ancient Greeks in the temples dedicated to
Aesclepius, the god of medicine. In 10th century France, at the
monastery at Cluny, "infirmary music" was a central element offered as
part of the ritual care for those ready to pass over, providing comfort to body
and soul, as well as energetic provision for the coming journey. The "shma,"
the Hebrew prayer recognizing the oneness of all, is to be the last thing on the
lips of a Jew at the time of physical death. It is a command to hear: that it is
through deep listening and true hearing that we come to know the One. Hearing is
the last sense to remain active as one approaches the final incarnate moments.
Prescriptive music and the musician-clinician
Music-thanatology is a contemplative clinical modality,
practiced by trained musician-clinicians. We utilize musical aspects such as
melody, harmony, rhythm, scales and modes, meter, tempo, complexity level,
intervals, and register as the "raw materials" of music, which we can
employ with specific intention in our work. The music vigil is deeply personal
and fluid. Along with musical, medical, and historical elements, much of our
training focuses on being able to bring a reverent, compassionate,
non-judgmental presence to the bedside. This more fully allows us to take subtle
cues from patient and family to create a musical field that facilitates
processing and unbinding without intruding on these vulnerable moments. We are
there to serve the time and needs of the patient and family, leaving our own
personal agendas and time-frames at the door. We are part of the growing
movement that acknowledges the same level of awe, mystery, reverence and
significance in the soul passage out of this world, as into it. Our work is to
build a musical bridge, to help navigate this passage for all involved. It is in
this sense that music-thanatology has been referred to as "musical
spiritual midwifery."
Music-thanatology vigils
I have provided approximately 500 music vigils over the past
five years, and no two have been the same. It is very common after a vigil to
hear someone express the wish that this service had been available when a
particular loved one was near the end of life. We see this as a return to a time
when there was no compartmentalization between different types of healing
modalities, and no lines of demarcation drawn between the care of body, mind,
and spirit. Vigils are appropriate for those at or near end-of-life, and their
families; patients with pain or other symptom management concerns toward
end-of-life; those with a new, life-altering diagnosis, and the accompanying
coping challenges; families experiencing grief or bereavement issues; and anyone
in what may be in their last year of life, with any of the complex of issues
that may be present.
While we often see such changes as easier, slower, deeper
breathing, slowing of rapid heart rate, and less physical discomfort, patients
and loved ones often describe a profound sense of serenity, consolation and
peace that comes with the music. In the vigil setting, I have experienced
spouses being told for the first time that its okay for them to leave, and
family members releasing held back tears and coming together in profound ways. I
have had many experiences of being present for the removal of life support
systems, providing music to fill the void left by the cessation of stark
mechanical noise. I provided one such vigil early on in my training, for a 75
year old man who just had a massive stroke. There was no brain activity, and his
wife and two daughters had made the decision to remove him from the ventilator.
We played through the procedure, continuing on afterwards as his family said
their goodbyes. His wife kissed him on both cheeks and bent over him, her chest
resting on his, as he took his last breath. One of the daughters approached us
afterwards and said, "This was a beautiful experience because you were
here."
Many people comment that this work must be extremely difficult.
While there are difficult moments, we experience this as the most rewarding work
we can imagine doing: having the privilege of being invited into such a
vulnerable and intimate setting, to provide, through living music, a comforting
beyond words, that transcends cultural and religious boundaries. We consider it
a great honor to do this work, and we extend our gratitude for the countless
gifts we receive by being in the presence of those nearing the end of their
physical lives.
SacredFlight has been providing music vigils in the Portland
area over the past three years. For more information, please visit our website, www.sacredflight.org,
or call us at (503-241-3344.