November/December 2003 Living Now
Lets Get Serious About Laughter!
by Pragito Dove
Life does not have to be a constant struggle. Happiness is
our essential nature. Rather than waiting for events outside of ourselves to
determine our happiness, we can find deep inside, the happiness which is our
essential nature. Perhaps we think we have to be relaxed and calm and all sorts
of conditions need to be there for us to be happy. This is not the case.
Happiness can be there for no reason. The more we make a practice of smiling,
laughing, enjoying ourselves for no reason the more we will discover that
what we seek we already have.
The Benefits
Laughter is good for us in every way: physically, emotionally,
spiritually. Among its many benefits:
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Laughter stimulates physical healing. If you can laugh
when you are ill you will get your health back sooner. If you cannot laugh,
sooner or later you will become ill. Laughter brings energy from your inner
source to your surface.
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Laughter enhances our creativity. As our energetic
systems open up we are flooded with more creative energy. As old
conditionings are released the unconscious opens and insights come. The
relaxation of body and mind provides a gateway for the inner wisdom to come
forward into expression.
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Laughter is rejuvenating and regenerating and keeps us young.
When we laugh and smile we loosen up and generally feel better. The face
collects stress and when we laugh we can release a tremendous amount of
tension from the face. This gives us a more youthful appearance.
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Laughter opens the heart. It creates an opening to the
love, compassion, courage, trust and intuitive wisdom that vibrates within
you. Humor draws people together.
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Laughter gives us a glimpse of freedom from the mind.
For those moments when you are totally laughing, you are free of the mind.
You are brought from worry to humor, from tension to relaxation, from fear
to trust, from timidity to courage. In other words from the mind to the
heart. You cannot think and laugh at the same time. In those seconds when
you are out of the mind you are in meditation. In those seconds the mind is
not and you are.
The Laughter Meditation
In the morning when you wake up, stretch your body -- every
muscle, cell and fiber in your body, just like a cat. After a few moments start
laughing. Just start. At the beginning you may have to force it a little saying
'Ha, Ha, Ha,' or 'Ho, Ho, Ho' to get the energy of the laughter moving. Soon a
spontaneous laughter will arise at the sound of your attempts at laughing. Try
it for five minutes. Just laugh for no reason at all. Laugh for the sake of
laughing. You might want to use my laughter CD to help you get started.
Try it again for five minutes when you go to bed, just before
you go to sleep.
At the beginning it will take some effort, but after a little
while it will start to happen naturally. Your body will get used to it, will
start to expect it.
Try it in the shower, while driving your car, stuck in traffic.
Ha,Ha,Ha. Even to say those words out loud will start a transformation in your
energy, in your mood.
Laughter is one of the easiest ways to free yourself from the
constant thought process of the mind and find inner peace. It will make you more
alive, more healthy, more creative, and more silent. Simply relax into the
enjoyment of it. You will discover in yourself a tremendous natural talent for
rejoicing in life. You may even laugh your way to enlightenment. Yes, its
that good. Remember to laugh - a lot - every day.
Pragito Dove is a hypnotherapist and the author of "Lunchtime
Enlightenment" a book and meditation CD series with music. Visit her
website: www.pragito.com/