March/April 2002 Spirituality
Using Intuitive Collage to Tell the Story of Your Life
by Andy Couturier
Memory is a peculiar thing. Vague recollections get smudged together
with the emotions that surround them. Whole years get lost, while a
single clanging incident plays itself over and over again in our brains.
The act of writing can connect us to our memories, connect memories
to each other, and help us unearth the obscured meanings that our experiences
hold for us just below the level of consciousness. On a very basic level,
writing is a way to communicate with yourself.
Writing is so powerful, and can so often bring us pleasure, comfort
or even transcendence; it seems odd that we are taught to think of it
as an arduous, miserable chore. Perhaps we are holding on to outdated
rules and preconceptions about why we write in the first place, and
what is the "proper" way to express ourselves. When we write
to explore, discover and understand our own history, we need to let
go of the internalized expectations of others. Although the words and
ideas formed may eventually find their way into print, writing for self
discovery will only be crippled by the constant interruption of the
evaluative mind.
By letting go of a preordained structure and instead inviting radical
breaks (or ruptures) between one voice or style and another, you not
only render the truth of your own experience more authentically, you
are often able to move into an altered phase of consciousness, almost
a trance state, in which the intuition takes hold and the subconscious
becomes alive and supple. Once the deep mind is activated and you are
roaming the landscape of the past, many previously opaque experiences
become accessible, and, simultaneously, your language becomes potentized
and more truly reflective of your feelings.
To tell the truth of a story--or the many truths--we need to be open
to the prismatic nature of reality. A method for doing this is to use
intuitive collage to allow the story to shape itself. For example, try
starting right in the middle of the story, or simply listing impressions.
Or you can collage together disparate styles such as a tone poem and
a journalistic article ("Who, what, when, where, why"); an
impassioned exhortation smack up against a surrealistic dream text;
a speculative internal dialog intertwined with a luscious, sensual description.
Throughout the process, know that your writing gets better as a direct
result of how much you deepen your perception: perception of the outer
world as well as and the inner world that responds to it. Then, when
we are then able to bring those powers of perception to the words on
the page themselves, we give to others the generosity we have been showing
to ourselves.
So when you set off to write your story--whether it be a coming of
age, the death of a loved one, or even the tale of a mountain bus ride
in a far off nation--try to let your desires and hunches guide you from
word to word, from memory to understanding, from speculation to epiphany.
This writing is for you. Let each element lead naturally into the next
and let this mosaic of the mind lead you on a path of honesty about
your own life and your experience inside of it. You may surprise yourself.
Andy Couturier is the founder of The Opening, a center for writing
using "The Perception Approach." Courses offered include Write
Your Own Healing, Not Far From Home, and Scrimshaw: A Workshop in Stylistics.
Courses are held at the Common Ground Wellness Center, and some have
childcare provided for busy parents with small kids. Contact the opening
at 503-282-2639 or email andy@theopening.org.